The simple truth is not everyone can love the way we want it.
There are personal differences among people (e.g. some people like to show it, some people do not like to show it, some people show love in an artificial way); the levels of love towards each other can differ from one person to other (e.g. low, medium, high, unconditional, conditional, permanent, transient, cyclic), and there are expectations that can vary among people (e.g. call me, do not call me, where is my flower/meal, blah blah..) .
The best love we can have is therefore the one we have for ourselves; there is no complications; only ourselves.
Love yourself the best; you deserve it.