post-vacation resolutions


Well.. It is kind of a tradition with me that whenever I am away from my routine life I almost always make some resolutions to work on. Never mind the success rate (ahem… very similar to new year’s resolutions..), but it is nevertheless exciting to come up with plans. They are focused around “cleaning”, “clearing”, and “change” this time. Interesting….

Here areย my current resolutions:

1. Losing weight. This has been on my list for ever…

I want to do this because of health reasons as well as to feel good about myself. This time surprisingly I have not gained weight while I was vacationing at home, even though I literally munched on everything I could get my hands on, especiallyย my mom’s food! ๐Ÿ™‚ Very surprising but also highly welcomed fact ๐Ÿ™‚

I am very happy about this and motivated to lose some more (I had lost 10 pounds prior to my vacation only because I was working like a worker ant for 6 weeks or so). Good job me!

My aim is to keep doing whatever I am doing (it is mostly not eating at nights – I stopped seeing it as a way of rewarding myself) and to lose an additional 15 more pounds. This will put me back at my weight 8 years ago, which is really cool ๐Ÿ™‚ I have so many nice clothes from those times (yep – I kept them and did not give away/donate… shame… ๐Ÿ™‚ )

2. Decluttering and getting rid of everything that I react negatively to. While I was on vacation I have realized why I do not enjoy buying gifts for people and rather prefer to give them what they may like (if they are open about it) or the gift cards. The problem with gifts is that when I am given gifts, I cherish and appreciate them so much (the sentimental value is really high) that I keep keeping them with me forever! this is not a problem if the gifted item was something I needed or something I really loved, but honestly there are things that do not satisfy either of these requirements. Plus, some of the gifts are from people whom I really do not like much, so seeing their gifts reminds me them, and as such I get agitated once again for no good reason.

I want to have only those things around that I need or want. Thus, together with the fact that it has been sometime that I have decluttered my home, I have decided to start a new haul pretty soon.

I will ย find a way to re-use things, like old shirts can be used as cleaning clothes.

Or they can be modified in way that makes them usable. For example, I have a nice shirt which has a somehow wide neck. I am planning to work on it ย (i.e. tighten it a little bit) soย that I can comfortably wear, rather than checking and correcting the neck part every single minute.

Unwanted items that are in good shape can be donated.

And those that I have been keeping for years because I was thinking that I would need them, like some of my shoes and boots, that just take up space without providing anything back, can be dumped (finally….). So can be all the stuff that are given to my by toxic people or those that remind me toxic experiences – they all will go.

Yuppi!!!

Exciting ๐Ÿ™‚

3. Change the living environment. I think it is time that I re-arrange the furniture, especially at the bedroom so that it can feel “different”. I also have got new couch covers, which will help me to change the look of the living room. The table clothe will change as well with a new and lovely one. The towels gotta go as they they have been incredibly sturdy and of good quality but that meant that I have had to use them for years!!!! It would be lovely to have new ones, at least for some time.

4. Paying attention to myย attire.ย I have a tendency to not care what I wear. This does not mean that I wear old or bad stuff. But honestly I can look better and feel better too. Today, I wore a new shirt I bought last week and I felt really good in that shirt. I also noticed how different I felt…. I have no logical explanation why this effect has occurred, but I decided I did not need to know everything and I could continue to wear things that I love and feel good. Whether they are shoes or clothes, does not matter.

So be it ๐Ÿ™‚

I will be checking all my clothes soon and use those that I like but did not use for sometime, or go for a shopping spree (no worries – I will be frugal) ๐Ÿ™‚

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Clean, clear, and change. I guess this is a good plan.

Iย hope to be successful with this plan! Wish me luck ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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  1. Yay for new rituals! Have you discovered the Art of Decluttering? It’s the KonMari method and I love it. Extreme, for sure, but it works. I did my clothes already and feel a sense of peace. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    1. wow! you have read that book? I have been reading from other bloggers about this book and the Konmari way of decluttering. I have not read the book myself but the idea of getting rid of things that do not give joy (as I would like to do) is in fact inspired by her method. I heard that it is quite strange for many people (seen some videos on youtube for folding the clothes); very interesting, somehow even challenging. I am glad that you have experienced positive outcomes. way to go! ๐Ÿ™‚

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      1. I have been! I am about halfway through and have only done clothing so far but I found it incredibly therapeutic! I have taken the mostly folding approach, however not quite as extreme as hers. I am excited to start decluttering the rest of my life…jewelry next!

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