I have a colleague that I find quite annoying. I really do not understand his reactions or comments. It is like we are of different worlds.
Fine with me. Fine with him. We keep our professional interactions distant. It works.
This morning he brought me a cactus (prickly pear) – my first cactus ever! He was aware of my latest interest in succulents and thought I might rescue his cactus. It is the most beautiful cactus -a little one with 3 levels of pads; the third level consist of small ones and it is so pretty 🙂
It has been a warming moment between my colleague and I. I was genuinely happy and he was happy to see how happy I was. Emotions can be quite healing, my friends.
I was excited the whole day.
I planted my cactus in a new pot, changed its soil, and placed in a nice window sill. I will not water it for a week or so to give the roots a chance to heal. In a couple of months, I will try propagating it – I may have mini cacti! 🙂
These being said, I have 4 cacti seedlings germinated. Unfortunately I dropped and broke one of the glass propagation containers. It demoralized me, but it should not (my new approach to self care – trying not to beat myself for accidents or mistakes…). I sifted out the soil, hopefully still having the seeds, and placed in another pot. I am not hopeful about the future of this propagation attempts, but who knows? Maybe the more I ignore (which I am inclined towards now), the more likely that one or two seeds will germinate… We shall see.
Three lessons learnt today;
- A touch of kindness certainly can dissolve ice
- Ignoring succulents/cacti is a much better approach for propagation – I can swear that the more you care, the less they grow or strive!
- I can be compassionate towards myself 🙂